It is a good time to work with my classmates. Truly speaking, I don’t like Student Association Organizing Committee, no matter where it belongs. For me it is a waste of time. People get together to spend a lot of time discussing a simple thing. The committee is not efficient enough. Secondly, different people respond for different parts of the work, the cooperation status always can’t get to the best. Of course, the result can’t be as good as expected.
The bias or unbiased negative estimation affects my attitude to this kind of organization. But the workshop on Wednesday expresses me a lot. I find that I am really lack of the experience in taking part in activity and organizing the activity. It is a good chance for me to experience the process directly, not evaluate the Student Association Organizing Committee only depend on imagination and surface.
Of course it is a good experience. Thank you for everyone’s collective efforts and good cooperation. That day, we also discovered the characters that our peers haven’t show and got well known to the each classmate besides us. Including the mistake that we made at last, we can learn more about the manner and gain more experience. I haven’t taken much more part in organizing the workshop, but for me it is also a good beginning to try to enjoy some meaningful and useful activities.
That Wednesday is the gift that god give to me to open my heart to try and accept new object. It is a chance to find a new way to improve myself and explore my potential.
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
A topic appeared in my mind------isolation. When it first came into my mind, I realized that it is a warning to me. Even though I don’t think I am a person who is separating from others. Sometimes I am so silent that people who not know well of me will consider me as a hard person. In fact, I am so glad to make friends with others and stay with them. Even though the word---isolation warm me up, I just think I should smile more and don’t be shy to show my goodwill.
Communication and relationship is very important for today’s society, but the real friendship and harmony is not the flag that move back and forth in the wind. It is the true feeling that we should cherish. Sometimes people love to make many friends and seem to get on well with everyone, but it is the real friendship? I believe that a friend in need is the friend indeed. The friendship is the relationship between people. It is no meaning to let everyone to confirm you are a skilled people in making friends.
Isolation, a word will make people sad, but it is not the real function that this word should have. It is a positive word to encourage people to talk more, to smile more and suggest people to open hearts. It is a good warning for the shy to be more active and encourage them to show their happiness and goodwill. It is a good way to improve our communication skills and help us not to be misunderstood by others.
Maybe I seem to be isolated from most of my classmates. I hope it is too late for us to be friends! I am so happy to be peers with my class.
Professor said: “We will cherish the memory of HC class and think of our efforts and colleagues.” Even though we will have the same class for a long time, I really understand the words of professor.
We write down our wishes and suggestions on the note and pass it to the people we want to help. It means we used to care about that person and want to be friends with him or her. I cherish the friendship with my friends. Someone said, no one will be alone in the world. These days I often think of my high school classmates, my dear friends who are far away from Macau and my parents. When I gradually step into the society, I know the importance of friendship more deeply than before. I cherish my friends and parents. I realize that the friends who now keep company with us will become the most precious treasure for us.
BBQ is coming! Today is a happy day!
With the cloud flows in the sky, the sand registers the footprint, the trees move back and forth in the wind......our BBQ party begins.
HEHE! The most hard work ---make a fire, is distributed to the boys，our table is response by Lei. I must thank Lei as his hard work. At that time we recognized the importance of the boys.
After the successful fire making, we actually begin our BBQ. Firstly, of course the turn of meet! Everybody is hungry and stares at the meet! Everyone's face is so cute!
We transfer the different food, the honey, the cooked meat from one table to another. We share the food the help each other. The happy process makes us become more close to each other.
When we work together, I enjoy the joke and talk between us. I am confidence about the relationship between HC colleagues. We can be a real team, not just a group.
What I gain today is the precious happiness and friendship. It is a wonderful party! The smile face will never fade from my memory！ 
Some grade one students come to joy us, they are active and never shy to show their opinion! I can learn something from them. Their way of making friends is much more directly and forwardly. It gives some tips to me, if we want to make frienfs with the new generation. Just open our heart and never too shy to show our opinions. 
BBQ was finished, we will back to the busy study life. But I will remember this day and somethimes think back of it!
Kindness including 2 parts: SHARE and CARE.
SHARE: Smail;Help;Advice;Ears;
CARE:Concern; Acceptence;Respect; Empathy;
If we hav been kindness people, we should be a successful leader already. Maybe the only need is time and luck!
How to be a kindness leader?
The key is HC!
Here is not a advertisement for HC! But we really need the spirit of HC!
H: Hard work
C: Change
For H: Put our wholeheart and mind on whatever we do！
Hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard.---------Time Notke
Success also means hard work!
If we want to be successful, develope our portential is necessary. And be a hunman it is our duty to develope ourselves in some way!
For C: The world is changing every second. Find the best way to adept to the new environment is seems to be a compulsory attitude. It is a basic need, also a specail ability. How to change, what is the direction……? It is a changllenge also together with a big chance to have a big heap!
It is not easy to change, everybody know the hardness. More and more people want to lose weight, at last, how many people becoming sim? We have a dream, but how many of us really put it into a fact? There are many examples that are uncountable.
I should change, I realise it and will try my best! I am not sure and can't promise what kind of people I will be and what the habbit I will change. The only things I am sure is I need change and I should do my best.
As I want to be a stdent who is not only belongs to HC, but be HC!
There is a door in everybady's heart. Something and someone may be once knock on the it, but we igonored. I really ignored about it, just know I should change and confront my weakness directly. The most time I stay in the situation that I know I need take part in the activity but just KNOW it. In fact, I can put my idea into practice.
It is a good chance to have a talk with professor and classmates. Ally said she has changed and now she is a new Ally. Professor said he is knocking our door in our hearts. These secence let me think over myself comprehensively.
I need to be a new Shelly! From now on, overcome the barriers in my heart!
We have a talk with Professor Udani. I get some information from professor and dear fellows. We face different problems. Someone feel uncomfortable about the classmates’ attention. Someone feel HC is a good chance to get a big heap in academic and standard. Someone feels good……
I have been a member of HC for almost 1 year. What I really want to get from HC, in fact, it was hard for me to answer when I just step in HC class. It seems relax for us to take this course, has no examinations, no final, no quiz and so on. But for me, I star to think about the aims that I take this course, just for study abroad, for the honor of HC or for study?
I have studied for one year, listened many speaking from successful people, take part in many activities about leadership. What I really need to get from this course?
I can feel the importance of communication, unity and cooperation gradually. But the key of leadership, I can’t catch the feeling.
What I can do now is hard work and getting more experience. My mother said experience is the best teacher to help children grow up. Someone starts to think about life, I used to, but I think future can’t be controlled by our planning. We always face the different choose. What’s the most important is our dream.
I have a dream that one day…… I can find my dream and reallize it.
My friend told me life can’t be back once gone. I cherish every day. It is custom to chat with others, attend party, go shopping together, but I really don’t know what I really need from others. We seem happy but really lonely inside. Help from others will be a tremendous precious for us in whole life. It is a support and affirmation for us.
Life is like a boat, need the river, the sea, the lake to cooperate together to motivate, has the same meaning of help to us.
We need friends, the real friends-------we can call them for help even it is not a big dear, we can help them without their begging, share the happiness and sorrows. Whenever we need, whenever they need, we can support each other.
Cherish our friends!
Blues
A blunt question blunt knife
Boast about
Boiling point
Bold daring intrepid impudent
Bolster
Bonanza
The familial bond sell bonds
To boom our economy
A tremendous boon to sb
Boulder
Braid a belt form strips to leather
A breach of duty
Feel the breeze
Brighten my spirits
Broad—brimmed
Take a brisk walk
Bronze Age
Building block
Get a bump on his head
A bundle of money
Burning need for a refreshing shower
By—product
The Cabinet
Log cabin
Cactus
Calibration
I improve my English skills start with reciting words. I need pay my effort. I know it will be work and I will be succeed one day!
We had our HC class on Wednesday last week. The short film empress me deeply.
KFC, MC and other fast food is so normal in our daily life. We usually don’t careful enough to our food. The aim is getting enough, not eat up. Sometimes wasting is become a habit, we even haven’t realize it.
For many people, it is not a problem to solve the food and clothing. The last part of the film gives me a shock. We know hungry is a big problem in the whole world, but we really understand the ponderance?
The situation is much more serious than we know. We know we should help them, but what can we really do?
I want to show my opinion in the class, but I can’t get the answers exactly, so I give up.
If we really eat up all of our food whenever and wherever, can the people as the film described who depend on the extra food alive? We really helped them? Or we just do the things oppositely and comfort our heart. People always like to think over the behaviors that comparable with theirs and change the behaviors. It is really helpful to all situations? The answer is not certain.
At that time, I really realize the importance of the existence of the leaders and government. Single people and a small organization can’t solve the problem completely and directly. The government is much more powerful and efficient. They can solve the problem as high standers. It is the true meaning that leaders and government’s existence.
We need to update our blog every week. At the begaining, it is not an easy job for me. As I am a student write nothing about my experience in daily life, and there almost have no essay in my assignment. It is a new try to record my feeling and thought.
When I really put my heart to complete my blog, I find it is a hard job.
1) It is hard to find the topic.
At first, I just want to finish my homework and decorate my blog. When I really built up my blog, I realize I should make it carefully and beautiful. I start looking for topics around me and observe people around me. I catch some interesting. Sometimes, it is not occurred on me, but I feel happy and relax. I find more interest in my daily life.
2) Self development
The weekly updating gives me a good chance to improve my English. As I don’t want to use the same express to describe the objects again and again, I find it is necessary to develop my English. I decide to put more attention on my English.
3) What’s more important is the fact that a successful people must be with actual strength. I should be more powerful and compacable.
The topic is urban planning. The content contains a lot of knowledge about planning, he explain the concept of the urban planning for us. This lecture does not like an experience sharing meeting, more over it likes a lesson. Dr. Choi regards us as his students. Lesson from urban planning:
After the brief introduction about urban planning, I feel the humanization about this subject.
1) His patient, serious attitude and passion pass to me.
For me, it is really hard to talk to the students who have no basic idea about urban planning. It is so generous for him to share the experience and the knowledge. I admire him about his serious attitude to science and knowledge.
2) Respect
Different city has its special characteristics, like different person has special hobby and habit. Depending on the basic culture and conditions of the objects, then start the modification is the main idea of urban planning. It is also an important enlightenment of having a good leadership sense. No matter we will be leader in the future, what I get is to respect everyone’s opinion. It is also the good ethic to respect ourselves.
3) Hard work
From the lecture reported, I can feel the hard work our guest paid. Everyone who wants to become success, hard work can’t be omitted. No pay no gain. The old saying is also the most fashion words and it won’t be out of fashion.
4) Creation and brave
The new idea that showed in the report is so charming, may be they are not the most agreeable one for the city, but the idea is so advance and active. I can feel the passion when we discuss the new planning for Macau. The new planning give me the idea of life and study, it is not just the subject for urban planning. It is fit for everyone. I should be brave, no matter in life or in study!
5) Optimistic attitude and goodness
At the end of the lecture, Dr. Choi wear the HC T-shirt, it is clear to see that, it is not match his suit, but from his smile I feel his goodness and optimistic attitude for giving us the lecture.
It is a wonderful experience. Combine the study, discuss and sharing together. I become interesting in urban planning now! It may be a pleasant experience in the process of planning and create the new installations.
The end !
We assign jobs: Allen and I respond asking needs and shopping. It’s not an easy job. Even it sounds so easy. Different 5 people have infinite thought, as we are so familiar with each other. They can change their thoughts at any time with no complains. HEHE, but we feel happy and relax about it. After collecting suggestions, real work begins.
We must calculate the most fit food amount for 5 people and consider the budget.
Fortunately, there are only 4 plastic bags need to carry, but so heavy, because so much meat and gefilte fish balls. Don’t make little of girls appetite.^_^
Step 2: begin the Hot Pot
This is a wonderful process, so harmony and happy.
Of course, the other 3 must take care of our 2. Jojo responds the food making. Flora and Jenny are ready for washing balls after hot pot!
The evening party of CCTV made more topics for us.
This is just a very normal and happy party. But I start to know that we sometime just the leader of our part, even ourselves. The success for a group is the cooperation and understanding. If everyone responds their parts carefully, then get together we will succeed.