It is a good time to work with my classmates. Truly speaking, I don’t like Student Association Organizing Committee, no matter where it belongs. For me it is a waste of time. People get together to spend a lot of time discussing a simple thing. The committee is not efficient enough. Secondly, different people respond for different parts of the work, the cooperation status always can’t get to the best. Of course, the result can’t be as good as expected.
The bias or unbiased negative estimation affects my attitude to this kind of organization. But the workshop on Wednesday expresses me a lot. I find that I am really lack of the experience in taking part in activity and organizing the activity. It is a good chance for me to experience the process directly, not evaluate the Student Association Organizing Committee only depend on imagination and surface.
Of course it is a good experience. Thank you for everyone’s collective efforts and good cooperation. That day, we also discovered the characters that our peers haven’t show and got well known to the each classmate besides us. Including the mistake that we made at last, we can learn more about the manner and gain more experience. I haven’t taken much more part in organizing the workshop, but for me it is also a good beginning to try to enjoy some meaningful and useful activities.
That Wednesday is the gift that god give to me to open my heart to try and accept new object. It is a chance to find a new way to improve myself and explore my potential.
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
A topic appeared in my mind------isolation. When it first came into my mind, I realized that it is a warning to me. Even though I don’t think I am a person who is separating from others. Sometimes I am so silent that people who not know well of me will consider me as a hard person. In fact, I am so glad to make friends with others and stay with them. Even though the word---isolation warm me up, I just think I should smile more and don’t be shy to show my goodwill.
Communication and relationship is very important for today’s society, but the real friendship and harmony is not the flag that move back and forth in the wind. It is the true feeling that we should cherish. Sometimes people love to make many friends and seem to get on well with everyone, but it is the real friendship? I believe that a friend in need is the friend indeed. The friendship is the relationship between people. It is no meaning to let everyone to confirm you are a skilled people in making friends.
Isolation, a word will make people sad, but it is not the real function that this word should have. It is a positive word to encourage people to talk more, to smile more and suggest people to open hearts. It is a good warning for the shy to be more active and encourage them to show their happiness and goodwill. It is a good way to improve our communication skills and help us not to be misunderstood by others.
Maybe I seem to be isolated from most of my classmates. I hope it is too late for us to be friends! I am so happy to be peers with my class.
Professor said: “We will cherish the memory of HC class and think of our efforts and colleagues.” Even though we will have the same class for a long time, I really understand the words of professor.
We write down our wishes and suggestions on the note and pass it to the people we want to help. It means we used to care about that person and want to be friends with him or her. I cherish the friendship with my friends. Someone said, no one will be alone in the world. These days I often think of my high school classmates, my dear friends who are far away from Macau and my parents. When I gradually step into the society, I know the importance of friendship more deeply than before. I cherish my friends and parents. I realize that the friends who now keep company with us will become the most precious treasure for us.
BBQ is coming! Today is a happy day!
With the cloud flows in the sky, the sand registers the footprint, the trees move back and forth in the wind......our BBQ party begins.
HEHE! The most hard work ---make a fire, is distributed to the boys，our table is response by Lei. I must thank Lei as his hard work. At that time we recognized the importance of the boys.
After the successful fire making, we actually begin our BBQ. Firstly, of course the turn of meet! Everybody is hungry and stares at the meet! Everyone's face is so cute!
We transfer the different food, the honey, the cooked meat from one table to another. We share the food the help each other. The happy process makes us become more close to each other.
When we work together, I enjoy the joke and talk between us. I am confidence about the relationship between HC colleagues. We can be a real team, not just a group.
What I gain today is the precious happiness and friendship. It is a wonderful party! The smile face will never fade from my memory！ 
Some grade one students come to joy us, they are active and never shy to show their opinion! I can learn something from them. Their way of making friends is much more directly and forwardly. It gives some tips to me, if we want to make frienfs with the new generation. Just open our heart and never too shy to show our opinions. 
BBQ was finished, we will back to the busy study life. But I will remember this day and somethimes think back of it!
Kindness including 2 parts: SHARE and CARE.
SHARE: Smail;Help;Advice;Ears;
CARE:Concern; Acceptence;Respect; Empathy;
If we hav been kindness people, we should be a successful leader already. Maybe the only need is time and luck!
How to be a kindness leader?
The key is HC!
Here is not a advertisement for HC! But we really need the spirit of HC!
H: Hard work
C: Change
For H: Put our wholeheart and mind on whatever we do！
Hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard.---------Time Notke
Success also means hard work!
If we want to be successful, develope our portential is necessary. And be a hunman it is our duty to develope ourselves in some way!
For C: The world is changing every second. Find the best way to adept to the new environment is seems to be a compulsory attitude. It is a basic need, also a specail ability. How to change, what is the direction……? It is a changllenge also together with a big chance to have a big heap!
It is not easy to change, everybody know the hardness. More and more people want to lose weight, at last, how many people becoming sim? We have a dream, but how many of us really put it into a fact? There are many examples that are uncountable.
I should change, I realise it and will try my best! I am not sure and can't promise what kind of people I will be and what the habbit I will change. The only things I am sure is I need change and I should do my best.
As I want to be a stdent who is not only belongs to HC, but be HC!
There is a door in everybady's heart. Something and someone may be once knock on the it, but we igonored. I really ignored about it, just know I should change and confront my weakness directly. The most time I stay in the situation that I know I need take part in the activity but just KNOW it. In fact, I can put my idea into practice.
It is a good chance to have a talk with professor and classmates. Ally said she has changed and now she is a new Ally. Professor said he is knocking our door in our hearts. These secence let me think over myself comprehensively.
I need to be a new Shelly! From now on, overcome the barriers in my heart!
We have a talk with Professor Udani. I get some information from professor and dear fellows. We face different problems. Someone feel uncomfortable about the classmates’ attention. Someone feel HC is a good chance to get a big heap in academic and standard. Someone feels good……
I have been a member of HC for almost 1 year. What I really want to get from HC, in fact, it was hard for me to answer when I just step in HC class. It seems relax for us to take this course, has no examinations, no final, no quiz and so on. But for me, I star to think about the aims that I take this course, just for study abroad, for the honor of HC or for study?
I have studied for one year, listened many speaking from successful people, take part in many activities about leadership. What I really need to get from this course?
I can feel the importance of communication, unity and cooperation gradually. But the key of leadership, I can’t catch the feeling.
What I can do now is hard work and getting more experience. My mother said experience is the best teacher to help children grow up. Someone starts to think about life, I used to, but I think future can’t be controlled by our planning. We always face the different choose. What’s the most important is our dream.
I have a dream that one day…… I can find my dream and reallize it.